Source: Qianjiang Evening News
Even if the first arrival of the coming, Shen Sister’s kitchen is not difficult to find – Lishui City Lianzhuang District enacted the road, and The door of the community, the big and small indication is specified for you.
There is a spatial space between the housing and the spatial wall, and the colored steel watts out of a piece of 20 square meters. The wall of the house is a stainless steel stove, hood and sink. The word is released from four stove eyes; the opposite wall is discriminating the user’s self-discipline Convention: garbage classification, care facilities, environmental protection first, save energy … [ 123] The 53-year-old agarwood is the owner of this \”Shen Sister Love Sharing Kitchen\”, and the president of \”Shen Sister’s blood donation hematopoietic stem cells\”. In a long-term volunteer service, I saw too many blood diseases. Patients with tumor hospitals wanted to eat a mouthful of meals, and in February this year, she took this shared kitchen under their own homes for the patient’s family. All costs of the firewood oil are expenses, and they do not pay a penny.
Only one intersection from the center of Downtown, about 1 km from the People’s Hospital of Lishui City – the location advantage plus the mouth, this small kitchen became the perspective of patients. From now on, the kitchen has served nearly 4,000 people, and it has also spent tens of thousands of yuan savings.
Like a weak light, the passers-by, where the fireworks here also temporarily cover the breath of disinfecting water and chemotherapy. Although it looks a little simple, the fire red stove gives people who have been sleepy, bringing a long-awaited taste.
The taste of home.
Shen Xiang 㜭: 53 years old, the national three eight red flag, Zhejiang outstanding Communist Party, Liquui Liandu District CPPCC, Shen Sister free blood donation hematopoietic stem cell association Long, love in Zhei – Shen Sister love sharing the kitchen author.
1 small kitchen,
carrying a sorrowful and joy of a severe family
11 noon, the kitchen is already a lively scene, five or six Middle-aged men and women are busy with the world. Vegetable and vegetable washed and cut, stir fry, the fire is all open, and the hood is running at full speed. An a dish, the next family, the next family, has already been accepted. The small aisle floating the tempting fragrance.
This day, cooking here is the disease of Lishui People’s Hospital. Cheng Lifen, Yunyun County, this meal, sweet potato leaves and potatoes. She is 29-year-old daughter-in-law, who is suffering from leukemia, has been in the Lishui Treatment Halist for nearly one year. More than a dozen chemotherapy, it took more than ten thousand, it was self-funded. \”Her sister’s bone marrow has been successful, but doing millions of transplants, there is no money.\”
Last month, Cheng Lifen’s husband left because of stomach cancer. Many years of creating diseases hollowed out their homes, and also borrowed the channels that can borrow money. Later, my father had a sudden heart disease, and then the wife was born.Sick. She can only make the only son who can earn money, and the granddaughter is handed over to the family, and she cares for the patient in the hospital. \”Think about her is still so young, say how to give up?\”
In order to save money, Cheng Lifen exhausted everything. From the hospital to the vegetable farm to the kitchen, take the meal back to the hospital, walk for 4 or more minutes, she can’t stand the bus, walk every day.
But then, the patient’s food is not provisions.
Hematology patients have high health and nutrient requirements, plus long-term chemotherapy, and the doctor also recommends that three meals are burned. But patients with counties in Lishui, they are a luxury thing to cook – this means that they need to rent a house around the hospital. The price of the nearby house intermediary, such a house rents are more than 1,000 yuan, and she has no courage to talk about prices, and even less taking the aphrodisiac gap. Wasting during the rest of the house.
In April this year, she learned about the love kitchen from the nurses. On the evening, I came to find the family of the three sorrow friends all the way. \”You can’t find such a good person in the world.\” Cheng Lifen said with tears. With the hotel’s stove, you have to collect more than ten pieces. Now it’s okay, what you want to eat, you can do it. Thanks to Shen Sister, you will lose this kitchen. \”
Sichuan Lu Cai Lian, a husband who is accompanying the lymphoma in Lishui seeks medical treatment for half a year. \”You are really very good.\” She said that the old appetite is very poor, I just want to eat her burning vegetables, I used to use the sorrowful friends who rented a house for her, June patients were discharged after leaving He introduced her to the kitchen of Shen Sister. \”This year, his red blood cells and platelets are often very low. Until Shen Sister, they went to our hospital to see us, I know that Shen Sister and her volunteers have been given up blood donation …\”
The kitchen is like one The silent container carries the sorrowful and sorrow of the serious family. The streaks of the scent are in the middle of the disease, sometimes helping them to put the dish, sometimes she holds half a cut watermelon … until the stove is extinguished, the water is stopped, the disease is leaving, Shen Sister finally Time tested her and the story of the kitchen.
2 The following is a sister’s oral oral –
There is someone in the heart, there is a path at the foot
When I was a little bit of my days. At that time, the biggest wish was two: First, I can often have meat, and I can wear two pants in winter. I remember that there is a couple in the village quarrel every day, and my husband’s wife is useless. I listened to my heart, I have to work hard, I have to go out of the mountain, at least not to marry my husband every day.
18 years old, one day I listened to Lishui in the radio, I can learn tailors, one month, tuition fee 20 yuan. The father didn’t let me go, I have a bag of rice, a cup of dried megan ran from the back door. After learning, it is also from the back door.Skating in, or I have a fight.
But today, I am still very grateful to my father. I am not afraid of hardships, I have to think about it. What my father always taught us is that there must be someone in his heart.
After coming out of the village, I have been doing processing, business is not big, but I am living, but I can make more people to do public welfare. The objects of processing materials are all disabled, low-cost households and difficult groups of the priority sun home, because I think they really need this income.
From the processing of the processing, I will sew clothes for others. Has been 30 years. The earliest is to the community, park, business, square, school and towns. In 2015, fixed sewing points were set up in my office, and volunteers were arranged two days a weekend.
How did I start blood donation? Probably in 1994, my daughter was only 5 years old. We pass the department store at the door of the department store, and you can see a bottle of milk. I used to be poor, my daughter did not taste the taste of milk. That is the first blood donation, only knowing the blood is saved.
Due to this sentence, I began to donate blood regularly, and later organized the team and set up a volunteer association. Now there are 365 teams, and it means every 365 days a year. White blood, the platelet is low, it may not be possible soon. Local patients can also find friends and relatives, and only wait for the field. So the blood station often calls me on WeChat, what blood type is urgently needed today, I will arrange volunteers. Frequently blood donation for some patients with critically ill patients.
This year’s central blood station helps me count, I personally donated 34500 ml in 25 years, and the team accumulated blood to 280 million.
△ △ 沉 㜭 (right) is to help the patient’s family to make a dish
is also so many years of blood donation, let me see that the patient wants to eat and eat is really difficult. Sometimes I look at the pity, I will help them burn, let them put the vegetables on the door security guard, I will burn again. In the past, there were many restaurants on one street, and it was removed last year. In February this year, I found that the two fast food stores in the community suddenly queued to buy rice, and the team was several meters long, and the road was blocked. I think, if I have a kitchen, I can use them, clean and hygiene, and how good.
Go home with my husband, he advised me not to get. It is not a heartache, I am afraid that I can’t get up to give a joke. I said that I can’t get it, I have to try it. This is also my temper, what I want to do, will persist. I took a 12-square-meter storage room, and the kitchen was like this.
3 Some people burned,
I couldn’t see
didn’t have much money in the hands, and the kitchen was very simple. Asked relatives and discussed a redundant table, more than a thousand dollars bought gas bottles,Gas stove, even if it is open. I have a long-term nurse with several hospitals, the tumor department, afraid that the patient can’t find it, I will draw a map to give them, ask them to tell, there are places where you can cook, don’t pay for money.
I still remember that the first patient family members surnamed Ye, I have been burning more than 5 months here, and his wife has just been successfully returned to the central hospital. When he walked, he bid farewell to me, saying that at least 20,000 yuan were saved in these months.
His wife is very fortunate, the problem is found, and there is no deterioration, and the bone marrow is smashed, and chemotherapy has killed cancer cells and then transplanted. As such a patient, the doctor cares more about it. It must be dinked with himself. If you buy it outside, sometimes you have a problem, you will first aid. I know that five or six people die.
For so many years, I also see more, but I can’t see it, I have a very sad. So they are burn every day, I am actually very few, can’t bear to see. Some people burned it, they can’t see it again.
I impressed special deep, with a 18-year-old son, pushing my mother with a wheelchair every day. I thought it was very old, I learned that I was 47 years old later. She is sitting on the side, teaching the son how to fight. The little child never chefs, and the boiled shrimp will not, the fish is always burnt. She will teach a little one thing: what extent, the oil fry the vegetables, the vegetables are so flavor, the oil can be used to get the pickles …
I said, aunt, you come over every day. Tired, let your son can come. She said, I want to take a wheelchair, the church son is cooking, and I can eat the meal to my son when I don’t move. Even if one day I will leave. But her son just learned simple boiled and speculatory, and he didn’t see them again. Later, I found that her illness was very fast, and when there was a little breath, she took her back to Suichang. I got home next day.
At the end of June, 10:30 in the evening, raining, I have already slept, there is a disease called me, ask the kitchen without a light. It is the first to use the kitchen so late.
She said that the old man woke up in the ICU, suddenly said that I would like to eat meat. I understand it. I have experienced that I woke up in the intensive care unit, and I have to go after eating.
I said that you have taken it, I will help you burn. She doesn’t actually caught, I have been crying on the side, calling my son, calling relatives. The next day she sent me a long text message, thanks to me to complete her husband’s last wish, let him eat.
It is really impossible to say that this kind of thing is to say tears. Sometimes they give me a hug, only I can experience their suffering, their unreasoning, all body is shaking.
△ and blood donation volunteers explore patients.
4 Things of the people,
I can’t help
To tell the truth, the conditions in the city are good, they got this seriously ill, they will go to Hangzhou, Shanghai, in It is basically not rich here. We organize volunteers to condolences, often see that they bring tens of pounds, sweet potatoes from home, and pumpkins are placed under the bed, which is the dish during their hospitalization.
A pair of old couple said to me, I have eaten the food in the hospital cafeteria, 20 yuan a day, I am cheap in me. They only burn noodles, three pieces of five months in the vegetable market, very carefully divided into 5 copies; when the supermarket is closed, buy a Chinese cabbage, put it in the kitchen, put two pieces of vegetables per peeled. The oil and seasoning of the kitchen is free, each time they will fall. I don’t feel the oil, I feel so much really hard. She is embarrassed to smile: Put some oil and eat more.
I was very sad at the time. In fact, I know that these people are not so bitter, and they are a big illness to make them so hard. This kitchen has been opened to the present, received a 9-faceted flag, more than 40 thank you letter and a lot of messages, many people thank you sincerely. But I know that this kitchen and what I did, actually just helped on the surface. I have limited personal strength, can’t really help people who are difficult. I can help them really make sense, but I have no way, there is no ability.
The thank-you letter written by patients
These are particularly difficult, I have built a group alone, there are currently 23 people. Every month I will find a way to add two meals, sometimes it is burning meat, pig’s trotters, sometimes ducks, red jujube soup. When you have added meals, please volunteers come to help boil, grace, and give them according to the list. What is the scorpion in the family, and it is also given to them. The two refrigerators at home are all full, and now it is full.
△ Give the most difficult patient
Of course, there is also a happy thing. There is an old woman in Qingtian, 82 years old, funny as a child, eat the bitter dish, bitter leaves, mashed potatoes, other, not willing to eat, and toss. There is also an old man, every day, you have to eat cake, and her is always talking to me. I know that she is reluctant to buy, I also bought a cake to see him. There is also a male family, seeing me to buy a shed, take the initiative to help me climb to the top, saying, saying that Shen Sister is here, enjoying us after all, is us.
There were still patients and I said that since the kitchen opened, the patient was willing to eat, and a few pounds a month. This is the most happy, I feel what is worth it.
5 Waiting for me to look back,
Have some people in a lifetime, nor is it white
After the kitchen opened, I started to give my own The frame is only open to the blood diseases and tumor patients of the two hospitals. But there are many people who knowIn the case of women’s livelihood, they also drive in the second People’s Hospital Rehabilitation. As long as you come, I will also use them. After all, a child is not easy, the maternal needs nutrition; the old man is not good, I want to eat mashed potatoes. These soft. Therefore, it is actually a box.
The kitchen is open 24 hours, ready to use it. At the earliest time, 6 o’clock in the morning, I heard the following high pressure cooker. Many patients told me after being familiar with me, I don’t believe it will have a free place. You have a two or three dollars, I also believe it. They said that they have to borrow their stoves in the store, they have to be ten dollars, the boss is still staring at you, afraid that you have more oil, afraid of gas for a long time.
Maintaining this kitchen, about 3500-4,000 yuan per month. There are twenty three people every day, and when you burn eight ninety dishes, more than two hundred vegetables. When people are too much, they can only ranked orders, burn it by time. The oil should be used to use ten pounds, and the gas should be more than a dozen cans. Every night I will go to turn, seasoning, oil is not enough to add, the oil in the large bucket will pour into the small pot. Otherwise they take a large barrel directly, put it on the stove, and I will burn the barrel.
But as long as my life can still maintain it, as long as the community does not demolition, at least ten years, I will continue to do it, and I have been free. Because this is what I want to do, I like it. My husband has always supported me to do public welfare, the big daughter is already married, the little daughter is going to university in Hangzhou, and there will always be someone in the future. I said to them that I will cultivate you. In the future, you will go to yourself, and your mother will do something you like in the future.
The kitchen is driving, in fact, it is disturbing the neighbors, but there has never been complained. After the media reported, some people sent me money, sending oil, sauce salted saline. Money, I haven’t received it, even if you are a pack of salt, I also register, call to thank you one by one. Not long ago, there are two companies to donate to me 14 boxes of food, so I don’t have to buy oil for two months.
So I think that there are still many people with love in society. I also believe that my love kitchen will get better and better.
Sometimes quiet, I will think, what you do is for? I want to go, maybe it’s not worries now, doing the meaningful things you can do, waiting for me to be old, I can only sit in the sun, I will look back, this life So some people, it is not a white.
(Some of the pictures are provided by respondents. Respondents should be required, some patients have a pseudonym)
Source: Qianjiang Evening News · Hour Journalist He Wei