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Summary I want to divorce.

Hall 26 years old and married, before marriage, with his sister, there are many pursuits, but she chooses my brother-in-law, because my brother-in-law is really long. Very handsome, it is very happy that the girl likes, two is the brother-in-law can say that it is very happy to say that the sister is very happy.

After marriage, the contradictions of the two people slowly came out.

First, the sister found that there was no enthusiasm for the tutor, especially in terms of work, and the attitude was very disgraced.

Tang sister and brother-in-law are working in the garment factory, the garment factory is busy, and the salary is more than the model, that is, the higher the salary of overtime.

In order to make a little more money, the first one will go to work in the first place, but the brother-in-one will never be so active. In the morning he is the late one, and at night, I will go home. No matter how it is not used, his statement is: Life is so short for decades, be sure to make you live comfortably.

From essentially, the values \u200b\u200bof the tang and brother-in-law are different. Tangjie hopes that you will make a little more money, prepare for the future, she is planned, but the sister is a People who are happy in time, there is no plan for the future, and he is even more unrecognizable that the efforts of the tangjie have been better to choose life.

So two people often quarrel because of this matter, the middle age is also divorced, and later have a small outer, and finally, for the children’s sister, this endurance is more than ten years.

01. When the girl is looking for an object, they will ask the other party to be self-motivated and is being straight.

Cemetric, in order to protect the future life will be, the better, if you want to live, you must set a goal for the future, and then go to the goal step by step, it is only possible to pass Ideal life.

Marriage life is to work together in both sides, rather than a person is moving forward, but a person has been in place, so the feelings have to be divided into Yang, because the goals are inconsistent, it is impossible to walk long. of.

As far as the sister and brother-in-law, in fact, the pace of them is different, the sister is active, love life, and the sister is negatively slow, always have to have passed.

Under normal circumstances, women have encountered such a man, only two choices, or let himself become strong, support this home, or let the man glow, change a more suitable person to continue.

In fact, no matter how choice, it is very tired.

The first way, let the woman changeBeing your own relying, it is not just more time, energy, and it will become hard.

The second method, even if it replaces one person, no one can guarantee the next one.

So, in this case, although there is a divorce idea, I haven’t thought about it, mainly because she doesn’t have enough greatness, she is not strong enough to give up any she doesn’t want.

02.

The money is dominated by a person choice, and the rich woman is afraid of divorce? No, they are not afraid, because they know, even if they are divorced, they can live very well.

Nanjie is a customer I used to have, from 40 this year, and the ex-husband divorced for 5 years, has not married again. The marriage rupture of the South sister is the main reason is that her forefoot wedding affair. She knew that after the horse raised a divorce, the house car was half, her daughter returned.

Nanjie is a strong woman, and the cause is getting a water, but because it is too busy to work, but I ignore the family, give Xiaosan Machine, the reason for the ex-husband is: Xiao San is very gentle, very I understand him understand him, and the South sister will only give him orders, let him feel very depressed.

In fact, the South Sister is not so strong.

Just married, the South Sister and her ex-husband are working in the company, one is the accounting one is sales. Later, the South sister quarreled because of the colleagues, after being dismissed by the company, he did not go to class.

Don’t look at the southern sister looks high and thin and very honest, but the heart is very high, the wages are low, he can’t see, the high salary is not the wheel, so it is very long after unemployment. Time did not find the right job, and then simply in the current situation, concentrate on rest at home.

That time, because of the rest of the mortgage, the South sister did not have time to work overtime, so a few difficulties have got a rich bonus.

After later, considering the 公 公, the South sister began to prepare for their own business. After the children weaned, the South sister officially opened the company.

After the South Sister Lord, she began to live in the family, she took the child, and she cooked her family.

After a few years, the more the sister’s money earned, the husband’s face is getting better and better, at least in front of her, she is more and more enjoyed by the queen I feel that I have forgotten that they are the facts of husband and wife.

03.

Whether it is my sister or a sister, it seems that the status quo of marriage can be seen, there is a situation of \”female strong male weakness\”, this time, If two people can’t put their minds, the marriage has a problem early.

The pace is consistent, it has always been an important factor in marriage, but most marriages will eventuallyThe situation is now: A person has improved very quickly, and some people have improved very slow.

Because people always change as the environment, each person is not the same, it will cause her to change the pace of changing, so when you find that the two people are not consistent, but at the same time You want to continue this marriage, you must remember that the other party is stopped when appropriate.

Wanting, don’t appear \”I do what I do is right.\” He is good, \”this kind of thought, also as little as possible.

Once you hang these words to the mouth, on the one hand, because you are dissatisfied with him, two other people can also detect from your tone. Your strange, so that the relationship between the two people will change due to their respective complaints.

Two people are together, don’t care too much. \”Whoever pays more\”, \”\” Who makes more money \”. Less a little more, more balanced, getting more comfortable.

Of course, if the marriage itself has a substantive problem, it is still to leave when the leave is left, but it is only in the early days of marriage, if we are good at discovering the changes of each other, knowing how to improve each other Differential modes, adjust your mentality, maybe a way is alive or not.

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Author Summary: Zhang Ping, psychological counselor, marriage family consultant, well-known emotional self-media. I have wine, do you have a story?