You will come to a rich person, study his experience will find:
Many white hand starting a house, it is not a person, IQ, IQ, Education, etc., but also mystery.
It is more important than those who are well, what is their way of thinking.
Today, Xiaobian is a way to share the four way of thinking, I hope to help you.
First, streamline professional appeals.
Many people have found that they have not been made in middle age, this is very important reason is:
His professional plan is not clear, I want to do it, I am interested, I am also interested. Didn’t do it.
When he was teen, he listened to his parents’ arrangement. When you come in, no matter whether it is right.
After investing a lot of effort, time and money, I found that many things were wasted, and the most precious thing is time.
Especially people aged for more than 30 years, to this age, must not live with twenties.
People to Middle age, if it is still not clear, their goals and professional appeals, some extent, in fact, is a reverse of life.
As the vessel must have a direction to sail, the workplace will have a goal, and we can go to work hard.
Second, comply with the principle of \”Alpha Go\”.
After interviewing a few people from a few careers, I found:
Their thinking is highly unified on this level.
More or less, when thinking about problems and decisions, they all comply with the principle of \”Alpha Go\”.
This principle is this:
Alpha play will re-evaluate according to the existing situation, then under the current situation, then under the current situation, the best A step.
In fact, many successful small entrepreneurship, also secretly followed this principle:
Small step trial, fast iteration.
For individual or company, in fact, every step of life is relatively independent.
Because people can neither understand the future, they cannot change the past.
The only best solution we can do is to stand on this footprint, find the \”one-step chess\” that is the highest in the current win.
However, many people’s way of thinking, the lack is just this:
I can’t extricate themselves in the failure of the past, or less in the future fantasy (or unknown fear) .
In fact, the most important thing is not the future, but every moment you can grasp.
Have every \”Today\”, in fact, the family, life will grow well.
Third, if one thing does not make money, stop doing this.
The author of this book has studied a conclusion after studying the entrepreneurial history of hundreds of whiskers, and draws:
\”If one thing does not make money, then the best practice That is, stop doing this. \”
When you just read this sentence, there may be many people like Xiaobian:
Listen to the monarch, won reading a doctor.
\”Don’t make money do not do\” – this is not nonsense? Who will do things that don’t make money?
However, think about it carefully – oh, it is my own.
In fact, many people are just in such a difficult situation:
During the day, it is engaged in a monthly salary of several thousand work, hungry is not dead, but it doesn’t dare to casually Resign.
The tired of modern workplace, let each workplace have worked, and there is no time to think about your future.
The work of thousands of monthly salary is not unable.
If you don’t have a great life goal, I feel that there is thousands of salary, this is not very thick. After all, this is just a way of life;
But if your wish is not Here, then it is necessary to consider, can you satisfy your goals?
Fourth, refuses \”weak thinking\”.
In recent years, the word \”native family\” becomes a commonly populated vocabulary, which is well known to everyone.
What happens to be psychologically, it also knows that this is a concept of a psychologically recited.
When we see a case, or an article, there are many people suffering from childhood trauma, such as being scolded by parents, suppressing, roughly involving children’s choices …
Next, this childAfter the child grows up, there is a phenomenon such as depression, anxiety, inferiority.
Seeing this content, we are easy to enhance the seat, and some phenomena on themselves is also attributed to the native family.
I admit that this is a very convenient statement.
Why is it easy to say, because the pain and troubles brought by the native family can almost accurately hit anyone.
Because every child grows up, it must have conflict with parents, and it is impossible to have a childhood that pile parts meet your own heart.
But let’s try again:
Why did we encounter the so-called \”childhood shadow\”, why people have grown well And some people become dark and distorted.
In fact, all the reasons for life failure are attributed to native families, is a typical \”weak thinking\”.
Freud, which proposed \”childhood trauma\” theory, especially like some of the acts of adults, and in a certain thing to childhood.
This is from emotional and preferences, \”reasoning\”, which will become a means of shirking responsibility and excuses.
Then the heart is lying in the past \”wound\”, continues as a qualified \”loser\”.
If you want to change your life, you must first refuse this \”weak\” thinking.
The above is university, uninhabited, no money to make money, do you learn?
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